The indecisive self within all of us!

Decision-making is an art. An art on which most of us don't spend time learning or improving. The result of which is being labelled as indecisive. But, there are times when we are unable to exercise control over this art inspite of being sound decision makers. 

When the decision to be made is going to cost you a fortune, for which you worked hard all your life.

When the decision to be made is going to cost you the company of a person you want to be with for the rest of your life.

When the decision to be made is going to cost you.....

Why do we start becoming indecisive at such crunch moments of our life.

In addition to the pain of finding yourself perplexed, in a state of complete chaos and confusion, what if the same person questions your ability to come up with a decision and to stay firm upon it. It throws you into a state where you are subjected to unimaginable pain, willing to explain but unable to do so. 

We can make it worse by questioning our own credibility and somehow, we might manage to develop within us a deep hatred for self. A deep hatred for the indecisive self! 

When being confronted with such a situation in one's life, ask a simple question - Do I really deserve this treatment? Ask yourself repeatedly whenever you are feeling low. It does help! 

There is an indecisive self within all of us although the stimulus to it might differ in respective cases!

If you are facing a tough call, make sure your decision is not entirely influenced by your emotions, it might seem to be a daunting task but once you are done with it, you will feel much better.

Regrets are inevitable! A pinch of cynicism is always needed to sustain in the long run!